Archives April 2025

Course Outline: Beginner’s Shibari (Japanese Rope Bondage)

Module 1: Introduction to Shibari

  • Lesson 1.1: What is Shibari?
    • Brief history and cultural context
    • Ethical considerations and consent in Shibari
    • The importance of safety
  • Lesson 1.2: Tools of the Trade
    • Types of ropes: materials, lengths, and how to choose
    • How to handle and maintain rope
    • Safety scissors and other essential tools
  • Lesson 1.3: Key Terminology
    • Basic terminology used in Shibari
    • Understanding the anatomy of knots and ties

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Flogging: A Historical and Modern Perspective


Flogging, the act of striking the body with a whip, rod, or similar implement, has a long and multifaceted history. From its origins as a form of punishment to its modern reinterpretation as a consensual practice in BDSM communities, flogging is a subject that intertwines pain, pleasure, discipline, and ritual.

Historical Context

Flogging has been used throughout history as a form of corporal punishment. Ancient civilizations such as the Greeks, Romans, and Egyptians used whipping to discipline slaves, criminals, and soldiers. In the military, it was a tool of order and obedience, with harsh floggings meted out for insubordination. In religious settings, self-flagellation became a form of penance and spiritual purification.

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Understanding Sub-Frenzy: A Guide for Submissives AND Doms

The world of BDSM offers a rich and diverse landscape of experiences, emotions, and connections. For many submissives, especially those new to the lifestyle, the excitement of exploring submission can lead to a state known as “sub-frenzy.” This phenomenon is common but can pose risks if not properly understood and managed.

What is Sub-Frenzy?

Sub-frenzy is an overwhelming eagerness to engage in BDSM dynamics, often leading a submissive to rush into experiences without adequate consideration for safety, boundaries, or personal well-being. It can happen to both new and experienced submissives, particularly after a period of little or no BDSM engagement.

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