Introduction

The queening chair—also known as a facesitting throne—is a specially designed piece of furniture that allows one person to sit or kneel over another’s face. While its purpose is largely sexual, particularly within BDSM and kink communities, the queening chair also holds interesting cultural and historical dimensions. Often associated with dominance and power dynamics, its name references the act of “queening,” where a woman sits on a partner’s face as an expression of sexual control or pleasure.

This article explores the origins, uses, and evolving perceptions of the queening chair, shedding light on how design, sexuality, and culture intersect.

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Latex fetish wear is a unique and captivating material, known for its second-skin feel, incredible sheen, and ability to accentuate the body’s curves. But unlike regular fabrics, latex requires a special kind of care to maintain its pristine condition, flexibility, and longevity. Proper cleaning and storage are crucial to prevent damage like tearing, discoloration, and a loss of that signature shine.

Essential Supplies for Latex Care

Before you begin, gather your essentials. You’ll need:

• Latex-specific cleaner or wash: Never use regular soap or detergent, as the chemicals can degrade the latex. Many brands that sell fetish wear also offer their own cleaning solutions.
• Silicone-based latex shiner or dressing aid: This is key for achieving that high-gloss finish and making the garment easier to put on.
• Talc-free powder or dressing aid: This helps to absorb moisture and makes the garment easier to handle and store.
• Microfiber cloths: These are soft and non-abrasive, perfect for cleaning and polishing.
• A large, clean basin or bathtub: For washing your garments.
• Padded hangers: To hang the garments without creating creases or stress points.

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Breath play—also known as erotic asphyxiation, air restriction, or breath control play—is a form of BDSM where one partner intentionally restricts another’s breathing to create intense sensations. It’s a practice that demands the highest levels of trust, communication, and caution due to its inherent risks.

This is not an activity for beginners. Breath play carries serious dangers, including brain damage, loss of consciousness, and even death. If you choose to explore it, you must approach it with informed consent, skill, and an unwavering commitment to safety.

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Electric stimulation within BDSM is a fascinating and diverse realm, offering a unique blend of sensation, control, and intensity. Far from being a monolithic practice, it encompasses a variety of devices and techniques, each providing a distinct experience for those who engage in it. From gentle tingles to intense muscle contractions, understanding the different types of electric stimulation can help practitioners explore this often-misunderstood facet of play safely and pleasurably.

At its core, electric stimulation in BDSM involves the application of small electrical currents to the body, typically through electrodes. These currents interact with nerve endings and muscle fibers, creating a range of sensations that can be both thrilling and highly erotic. Safety is paramount, and it’s crucial to use equipment specifically designed for BDSM use, never household electricity, and always start with very low settings to gauge sensitivity.

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Needle play occupies a unique place in the realm of BDSM. It is visually intense, highly ritualistic, and deeply intimate. Often misunderstood or mischaracterized, this edge play practice involves the temporary insertion of sterile needles just under the skin for sensation, aesthetics, or psychological thrill. For experienced practitioners, needle play can be a meditative, connective, and powerfully erotic ritual that requires precision, care, and trust.

This advanced guide explores the nuances of needle play, focusing on safety, tools, psychological considerations, and scene dynamics to ensure both top and bottom have a meaningful, consensual experience.

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When it comes to BDSM, the tools we use are more than just props—they are extensions of trust, communication, and the energy we bring into the scene. Whether you’re building your first toy bag or upgrading your collection, knowing what to look for when buying BDSM implements can make all the difference in safety, satisfaction, and longevity.

In this guide, we’ll break down exactly what to consider before clicking “add to cart” or walking out of your local kink boutique with your next delicious implement.

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By Maddy Hayes

Shibari is more than knots and rope—it’s a language of connection, intention, and intense trust. As practitioners progress beyond foundational ties, the demands of rigging shift from simple execution to a nuanced dance of anatomy, physics, and deep interpersonal dynamics. Advanced Shibari rigging isn’t just about aesthetics or suspension—it’s about responsibility.

In this article, we explore the technical intricacies and critical safety considerations of advanced Shibari, ensuring your journey into more complex rope work remains both breathtaking and safe.

1. Advanced Anatomy Awareness

At the heart of every secure and ethical rig is an in-depth understanding of human anatomy.

Nerve Pathways

• Radial nerve (upper arm) and peroneal nerve (behind the knee) are especially vulnerable in advanced ties like TKs (Takate Kote) and futomomos.
• Learn to recognize early signs of nerve compression: tingling, numbness, or loss of control.
• Nerve injuries can occur without circulation loss, so color and temperature are not reliable indicators.

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By Maddy Hayes, Psychosexual Studies Specialist

Abstract

BDSM—an acronym for Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission, and Sadism & Masochism—remains a complex and often misunderstood constellation of sexual and relational practices. While once pathologized, BDSM is increasingly recognized within psychological literature as a valid expression of human sexuality. This article explores the psychological effects of consensual BDSM from clinical, cognitive, and neurobiological perspectives, highlighting its potential to foster emotional intimacy, regulate stress, and enhance identity integration.

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When people talk about altered psychological states in BDSM, much of the discourse centers on subspace—that intoxicating blend of endorphins, vulnerability, and surrender experienced by many submissives. Yet its counterpart, Domspace, is just as real, just as potent, and just as critical to the emotional and psychological dynamics of a power exchange scene. Still, it’s often less discussed, sometimes even misunderstood, even within seasoned communities.

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