When it comes to BDSM, the tools we use are more than just props—they are extensions of trust, communication, and the energy we bring into the scene. Whether you’re building your first toy bag or upgrading your collection, knowing what to look for when buying BDSM implements can make all the difference in safety, satisfaction, and longevity.

In this guide, we’ll break down exactly what to consider before clicking “add to cart” or walking out of your local kink boutique with your next delicious implement.

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By Maddy Hayes

Shibari is more than knots and rope—it’s a language of connection, intention, and intense trust. As practitioners progress beyond foundational ties, the demands of rigging shift from simple execution to a nuanced dance of anatomy, physics, and deep interpersonal dynamics. Advanced Shibari rigging isn’t just about aesthetics or suspension—it’s about responsibility.

In this article, we explore the technical intricacies and critical safety considerations of advanced Shibari, ensuring your journey into more complex rope work remains both breathtaking and safe.

1. Advanced Anatomy Awareness

At the heart of every secure and ethical rig is an in-depth understanding of human anatomy.

Nerve Pathways

• Radial nerve (upper arm) and peroneal nerve (behind the knee) are especially vulnerable in advanced ties like TKs (Takate Kote) and futomomos.
• Learn to recognize early signs of nerve compression: tingling, numbness, or loss of control.
• Nerve injuries can occur without circulation loss, so color and temperature are not reliable indicators.

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