Archives December 2025

Face Sitting in BDSM: Power, Trust, and Consent

Face sitting—sometimes called queening or kinging—is a consensual BDSM activity that centers on power exchange, intimacy, and embodied presence. At its core, it is not about explicit acts, but about control, vulnerability, and negotiated authority. When practiced thoughtfully, face sitting can be a deeply connective experience rooted in trust and communication.

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Wickedly Woven Rope: Tradition, Texture, and Trust in Shibari

Wickedly Woven Rope holds a special place in the world of Shibari and kinbaku. Revered for its raw feel, organic texture, and deep cultural roots, Wickedly Woven Rope is more than just a tying material—it is a conversation between rigger, rope, and body. For those who value tradition, tactile feedback, and intentional preparation, Wickedly Woven Rope represents a return to the essence of rope work.

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The Ultimate Guide to DIY Rope Butter

Before you begin conditioning raw jute, you need a high-quality softening agent. “Rope butter” is a specialized blend of oil and wax designed to nourish the fibers, improve flexibility, and protect the rope from environmental wear.

The Formula

To achieve the perfect balance of glide and grip, we recommend a 7:3 oil-to-wax ratio.

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Mermaid Tie: Flowing Lines and Elegant Containment in Shibari

The mermaid tie is a visually dramatic Shibari restraint that binds the legs together in a smooth, continuous form, creating the appearance of a single, flowing lower body—much like a mermaid’s tail. Known for its elegance and strong immobilization, the mermaid tie blends aesthetics with functional restraint, making it a favorite for floor work, photography, and performance-style rope.

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Leg Binder: Classic Immobilization in Shibari

The leg binder is a foundational Shibari restraint that focuses on binding the legs together, creating restriction, containment, and a strong visual statement. Simple in concept yet powerful in effect, leg binders are used across many styles of rope—from minimalist floor work to more elaborate traditional and modern scenes.

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Fundoshi: Tradition, Minimalism, and Rope Adornment in Shibari

The fundoshi has deep roots in Japanese history, traditionally worn as an undergarment by men for centuries. In Shibari and contemporary rope aesthetics, the term fundoshi has evolved to describe a rope-based loincloth or pelvic adornment inspired by the original garment. Simple, evocative, and intimate, the rope fundoshi highlights how minimal rope can create powerful visual and emotional impact.

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