Hojojutsu: The Historical Roots of Japanese Rope Restraint

 

Hojojutsu (also spelled hojōjutsu) is the traditional Japanese martial art of restraining a person using rope. Long before rope became associated with modern Shibari or kinbaku, it was a practical tool of law enforcement, shaped by social hierarchy, ritual, and aesthetics. Understanding hojojutsu provides valuable context for contemporary rope practitioners and offers insight into how restraint in Japan evolved from necessity into art.

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How often should you condition Shibari ropes?

How often you should condition Shibari rope depends on the fiber, how often you use it, and how it’s stored. Conditioning isn’t a fixed schedule so much as responsive care.


Short Answer

  • New raw jute or hemp: once before first use
  • Regularly used rope: every 3–6 months
  • Heavily used or suspension rope: every 1–3 months
  • Light or occasional use: 1–2 times per year

Always let the rope’s feel guide you more than the calendar.

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The Art and Care of Shibari Rope

At Wickedly Woven, rope is more than a tool — it is a living medium of connection, trust, and craftsmanship. Whether you are just beginning your journey into Shibari or refining a long‑standing practice, understanding your rope — how it is made, used, and cared for — can deeply transform your experience.

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Face Sitting in BDSM: Power, Trust, and Consent

Face sitting—sometimes called queening or kinging—is a consensual BDSM activity that centers on power exchange, intimacy, and embodied presence. At its core, it is not about explicit acts, but about control, vulnerability, and negotiated authority. When practiced thoughtfully, face sitting can be a deeply connective experience rooted in trust and communication.

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Wickedly Woven Rope: Tradition, Texture, and Trust in Shibari

Wickedly Woven Rope holds a special place in the world of Shibari and kinbaku. Revered for its raw feel, organic texture, and deep cultural roots, Wickedly Woven Rope is more than just a tying material—it is a conversation between rigger, rope, and body. For those who value tradition, tactile feedback, and intentional preparation, Wickedly Woven Rope represents a return to the essence of rope work.

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The Ultimate Guide to DIY Rope Butter

Before you begin conditioning raw jute, you need a high-quality softening agent. “Rope butter” is a specialized blend of oil and wax designed to nourish the fibers, improve flexibility, and protect the rope from environmental wear.

The Formula

To achieve the perfect balance of glide and grip, we recommend a 7:3 oil-to-wax ratio.

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Mermaid Tie: Flowing Lines and Elegant Containment in Shibari

The mermaid tie is a visually dramatic Shibari restraint that binds the legs together in a smooth, continuous form, creating the appearance of a single, flowing lower body—much like a mermaid’s tail. Known for its elegance and strong immobilization, the mermaid tie blends aesthetics with functional restraint, making it a favorite for floor work, photography, and performance-style rope.

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