When breath becomes power, and surrender becomes worship.
In the world of BDSM, few tools embody the tension between power and trust as completely as the smother box. It’s an object both simple and provocative — a physical structure that invites one partner to surrender their breath, their space, and their control to another.
But the smother box isn’t merely a piece of equipment. It’s a psychological stage — one where vulnerability, control, and devotion intertwine.
Shibari, the Japanese art of rope bondage, is a practice revered for its aesthetic beauty, intimate connection, and potential for deep psychological exploration. Among the many emotions it can evoke, the concept of shame holds a complex and sometimes paradoxical role, functioning as both an emotional barrier to be overcome and, for some, a boundary to be safely explored for therapeutic or cathartic release.
The experience of shame in Shibari is far from monolithic, varying greatly depending on the individual’s history, the specific context of the tie, and the intention of the partners.
Defamation law in Canada exists to protect a person’s reputation from false statements that cause harm. At the same time, it must balance that protection against the constitutional right to freedom of expression under the Canadian Charter of Rights and Freedoms. The result is a legal landscape that seeks fairness between personal dignity and open public discourse.
Among the most iconic ties in Shibari, few carry the same weight of beauty, discipline, and erotic charge as the takate kote. Often called the box tie, this upper-body harness is both a classic restraint and a sensual work of art—an embrace of rope that holds the body in exquisite submission.
At Wickedly Woven, we celebrate the takate kote not just for its structure, but for what it represents: vulnerability, surrender, and the deep intimacy that Shibari creates between rigger and rope bottom.
Few symbols in history carry the weight of both fear and fascination like the whipping post. Once a place of punishment and public shame, it now whispers to us from the shadows—inviting a new interpretation. In the world of bondage and sensation play, the whipping post is no longer about humiliation forced upon the unwilling. It is about chosen surrender, erotic intensity, and the exquisite thrill of restraint.
At Wickedly Woven, we see the whipping post not as a relic of cruelty, but as a stage for desire. A place where ropes hug the skin, where bodies are displayed in delicious vulnerability, and where every strike of the flogger becomes a kiss of fire against willing flesh.
Shibari, the traditional Japanese art of rope bondage, combines aesthetics, connection, and restraint into a deeply expressive practice. One of its more iconic and historically significant ties is the Ebi, or “shrimp” tie—often referred to in the West as the Ebi-Crab Tie. This form of bondage emphasizes deep compression and submission, with roots in traditional Japanese forms of restraint.
The Ebi tie finds its roots in Hojojutsu, the martial art of restraining prisoners with rope, which was practiced by samurai during the Edo period (1603–1868). In that context, the Ebi position was used as a form of punishment or interrogation, forcing the body into a curled, submissive posture reminiscent of a shrimp. The word “ebi” (海老) in Japanese means shrimp, and the pose mimics the crustacean’s curved body shape.
The queening chair—also known as a facesitting throne—is a specially designed piece of furniture that allows one person to sit or kneel over another’s face. While its purpose is largely sexual, particularly within BDSM and kink communities, the queening chair also holds interesting cultural and historical dimensions. Often associated with dominance and power dynamics, its name references the act of “queening,” where a woman sits on a partner’s face as an expression of sexual control or pleasure.
This article explores the origins, uses, and evolving perceptions of the queening chair, shedding light on how design, sexuality, and culture intersect.
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Latex fetish wear is a unique and captivating material, known for its second-skin feel, incredible sheen, and ability to accentuate the body’s curves. But unlike regular fabrics, latex requires a special kind of care to maintain its pristine condition, flexibility, and longevity. Proper cleaning and storage are crucial to prevent damage like tearing, discoloration, and a loss of that signature shine.
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Breath play—also known as erotic asphyxiation, air restriction, or breath control play—is a form of BDSM where one partner intentionally restricts another’s breathing to create intense sensations. It’s a practice that demands the highest levels of trust, communication, and caution due to its inherent risks.
This is not an activity for beginners. Breath play carries serious dangers, including brain damage, loss of consciousness, and even death. If you choose to explore it, you must approach it with informed consent, skill, and an unwavering commitment to safety.